They say whether you get married or not, you’ll regret it either way.

I think this is a sentiment that even happily married couples, as well as those who are single and free, can both agree on.

This is also something that applies to more than just marriage.

Why?

People can never be permanently satisfied with anything because people are born with a sense of “inferiority”. We live our lives and base all of our decisions on that feeling that “I am not enough”, so in the end, we experience regret, regardless of the choices we make.

One day, I realized that the “love” I believed in was simply my attempt at satisfying this feeling. In fact, human love is never about loving the other person the way they are. It only loves that which satisfies those feelings of inferiority. It is a self-centered love at its core, which is why that kind of love will almost certainly change as time passes. Although marriage may satisfy a certain desire that one has, once that desire is satisfied, one will inevitably want more from their partner. That is how the human mind works.

Furthermore, everyone has a different mind. Even twins who grow up under the same roof will have completely different minds. This is the reason why married couples fight – because their minds are also different. All people have different minds and come from different backgrounds, so even after getting married, spouses may try to accept the other’s way, but it’s not easy.

I think we should first accept that we are different – We are different genders, we learned different things from different parents and different teachers had different careers, and lived each day differently. Then, once we become the big consciousness of the universe that can accept these differences, we can embrace and accept the other person just the way they are. That is true love.

I’d like to share a video that may be helpful for your marriage – it can be your key to a happy marriage without regrets. Instead of treating each other selfishly and staying in an empty marriage just for appearances, you can truly become best friends.